pathak's journey

Are you a people’s pleaser or not?
I am writing this because somewhere we all need to remind ourselves that no matter what,we are enough on our own. Wo don’t need someone’s approval,words to proceed onto something

I mean,we one the first place trust our guts and put our best then why do we feel to seek someone else’s hand to tap on that.
I know it is not at all wrong to ask for advice but that advice should help you in your growth not it should intimidate or scare you or make you overthink.

I am putting out another thing that I have stopped doing since years.
I get it that it gets tempting at some point to be in other person’s good book but even if you are what benefit does it brings to your step.

It only does the opposite benefit of it moreover it puts you in massive pressure.
I had a close call on this, I’ve been with people Which were one step ahead of me in their life and just to land myself in their books, I most of the time watched my tongue before saying something awkward or inadequate. I tried my best to match with their standards,so that I was considered valid but it never brought me any good.
It felt like I was strangled,i felt suffocated and its felt so much,the build up was so much that I had to cut off myself from these people. And after all of that happened it hit me that pleasing everyone never, never making mistakes, being available to everyone at all times is unattainable which for me is not bad at all.

I believe that we were not brought into this world for the validation of others,of hearing ornate words and to pin down your voice.
You are into this world to be yourself, without being attached to the strings of perfectionism,to think twice before putting anything out,even if your guts are correct or controlling your every move like a marionette.

I have picked this piece today because therr are many human around us who are really good at what they do but that one thought of pleasing someone or “what if they didn’t approve of this” snatches away everything from them and which in its own way is wrong
If we know what we want and how we want we should be valiant enough to put it all out there.
It’s good to please yourself than someone else!

That’s all for today, keep hangin,keep working and never stop double tapping on your thoughts!